Well, thank you MiataV8... You put a lot of effort into that.
Was the entire revision of the pic due to my set up having a "fatal flaw"? or maybe starting fresh helped you sort it out?
I have to admit a couple minutes looking haven't turned up the critical difference, between my illustration and yours.
Actually, a detail (?) to confirm: in my mind, the rear light blue arrow I would have expressed as reversed- as an output to the heater core. Agree?
My concern for a return is: the upper "option" at the front in your light blue "two options" is under (dynamic, pumping) pressure. aka Highside. Therefore, flow in the heater core would stagnate. Now the lower option is, I think close to what I was thinking.
Let me run this by you, as it has one critical difference from yours, which is: it's to the right of the thermostat in the pic.
My thought- see where the black water pump inlet is? Three fairly widely spaced bolts, looks like a thermostat housing. In fact, in your version, you left a small square of my light purpley blue (lavender?). What if I was able to make- right exactly there at that accidental mark- enough of a boss for an appropriately sized ORB fitting, and return post heater core coolant right there. Ideal, no?
What about the above posters concern for "short circuiting"?